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Deepti Khosla
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If I Could…
Category Archives: Motivational
Life like Snakes and Ladders..
Life Game is Challenging! No One has a Smooth Sail, we meet and navigate the situations that Life throws at us.
We Start, We Pace, We Slowdown, We Fail and Repeat Again and Again.
In many lessons and Experiences that I learn daily – I strangely found a connect of Snakes and Ladders with Life.
Rolling on to dice (Opportunities) every move teaches us something. It is rather interesting to understand how subconsciously we grasp the art of maneuvering through the difficult terrains to reach to the End (what we perceive as end) only to start a new with same enthusiasm each time.
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Rediscover Yourself
It’s not uncommon for people to experience moments of reflection and uncertainty about the path they’ve taken in life. Life’s journey is filled with unexpected turns and twists.
Question self about the path chosen – if is followed or have detoured at wrong turn somewhere.
At some point in life, it is difficult to understand if we have travelled this far or did go lost somewhere in between.
Self – Reflection is Important . Ask yourself what truly matters to you and if your current path aligns with those values. It’s never too late to reassess and make adjustments to your journey.
We must Remember that life is a dynamic and keeps evolving .Sometimes, the most valuable lessons come from the challenges and detours we face. Embrace the opportunity for growth, and don’t be afraid to make changes if you feel they are necessary to align your life with your authentic self.
It can be overwhelming to rediscover yourself, to rekindle with the aspirations once possessed. But everything takes time, trust people you love, practice self confidence, read more, push yourself to look beyond failures and allow every chance to explore more.
Ultimately, understanding your journey and finding fulfillment often involves a continuous Self Actualisation process.
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Be Your Own Original
Someone who we feel inspired from has a profound story behind, own struggle and a sheer of luck. We must understand that what person is today is based on his/ her own experiences and chosen path. Taking inspiration from them helps stay determined, listening to their stories widens horizons, deepens knowledge on human nature and glean valuable learnings from their struggles.
But, we should create perfect balance of Admiration and Imitation. Many a times we get enthralled by the glamour of someone who has a more prominent presence in the external world. And we start imitating in every possible manner. This is where we dilute our individuality and self awareness diminishes.
Each of us possess different personalities, attitudes, emotional quotients, analytic abilities …. Exchanging our genuine selves for someone else’s facade limits our ability to harness our full potential.
Admiring someone is good, being in emotional connect is wonderful but letting yourself free to an extent to which we tend to forget ownself is being foolish.
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Acceptance of Diversity Of Life
Sipping a cup of tea, I had this thought…
When we are young and studying in school or college, we are so connected with our friends. We meet them every day, hang out, and exchange messages or phone calls in the evening. We celebrate every little thing, believing that these friendships are meant to last forever.
As we move out to make careers, the connection gradually diminishes. From days to weeks, and even to months or years, everyone’s life engrosses them in numerous aspects. A reunion, be it in a year or two, or perhaps many more, may seem like a faint possibility.
Does this mean we change as individuals? Have we forgotten the good times we shared, or have we failed to maintain the respect for the relationships we nurtured?
Everyone has their boundaries, and Life’s journey presents different challenges. While we cater to the endless offerings from life, we naturally align ourselves with our current situations. This doesn’t mean we’ve changed.
What we used to do yesterday may not be suitable for today. Not because we’re neglecting our relationships, but because we’re striving to hold onto the present day.
Respecting the new day means it’s okay not to have long conversations. Even if we’re heading towards the same destination, our paths, speeds, and perspectives may differ. If the deal was to be together, it still doesn’t mean we need to match our pace. Neither should one slow down nor the other speed up.
The emotion of being around is not dependent on how much time we spend talking. It should be heartfelt, even if it is limited.
Let’s refrain from passing judgments on relationships that once blossomed. We must realize that we are all on different voyages.
It’s fine if difficulties aren’t shared; it’s fine if happiness isn’t expressed. Love for one another doesn’t depend on the number of words spoken; it’s about how deeply we can feel for each other even in profound silences.
Accepting The Diverse Nature of Life and Being In Accordance with Same will Allow us to Stay Strong and Still Connected for The Sake of Love irrespective of Distances !
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Self Conviction
Our Life is Constantly Surrounded By People having Opinions about Us.
While growing up almost each on of us would have faced and felt that our choices were driven by Societal Proclamations.
That is how it was been considered normal.
Owning decisions and standing on them was been found rare. But it’s time that we change how we would want to manage Ourselves.
Our Beliefs should be Strong, We Must take responsibility of our Acts and Actions.
Time Gone By has no comeback, Time Ahead can be Shaped On Our Belief and Self Conviction Today.
There shall be Discouragements, Failures, Hardships ; Let them Be, We Should Stand Firm and Walk Steady to Achieve Our Desired Goals.
There’s Just One YOU!!!
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Solo Woman Traveling
Ever Thought of Taking that First Step, Gathering Courage and Traveling SOLO?
It’s been quiet a Thing about Woman traveling Alone. But If planned and well researched it can be A Life Changing Experience.
Coming Out of Protective Shell, Duties and Responsibilities; It is Self Guiding Experience in realising Freedom and Potential.
It will Allow your mind to break the barriers of Hesitation. Killing The Fears which stop you from facing the challenges and giving a chance to Explore Inner Capabilities and Enhancing Creative and Analytical Skills.
Some Tips To We Advice To Keep in Consideration before you Plan and while Traveling.
Embark On A Journey that is Beginning to New Possibilities and
Self Awakening !
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Book – Bestest Of Friend
BOOKS – Friends For Life! Reading is One of The most Delightful Habits.
Books are Kind to Us. They always comfort us.
Inculcating this habit from Early Childhood Years is Of Utmost Importance. It will Enhance their Comprehension, Develop Curiosity , Improvise the language and communication, keeps them away from gadgets, and also builds powerful Concentration and Analytical skills. Their Horizon to think will increase leaps and bounds.
There’s never An Age to start something, If we realise “The Power of Reading” we must pick a book of our likeable genre and start reading. We will create A Positive Aura ,Mature Our Thoughts and widen Open Mindedness.
Have you ever tried to be in Book Store? The Calmness around them is Ecstatic. Between different Isles and Shelves we find Colours, Textures, Words , Captions, many Stories, Lot of Knowledge, & Thoughts to Ponder …
For people having Love for Writing, Pen your Stories. Each story can sum to many pages and pages collectively to A Book. It’s never late to put thoughts across, for someone successful today was An Amateur someday. A Bold Step to – Voice Opinions, Put Yourself across to others.
Every piece of writing is Always worth A Read.
It will always Enlarge Our Palette of Articulation. Every Time we Read A Book we are appreciating the Efforts of Writer who has shared Ideas or Reflections consciously for readers.
Read Read Read, every day, Fix a Time, Allow yourself to Explore different subjects and genres, carry one while travelling, have them around you at home and work, be friends with them and Love them as much.
A Book That has not been Attended for years, deserves Attentiveness and Air. There may be pages with yellow marks citing Age of it, lying quietly and lone awaiting presence of human warmth. Make that moment Now.
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
The new Epidemic – Fakeness
We are Unintentionally struggling An Epidemic – “FAKENESS”. – -Double standards, Hypocrisy and pleasures in Humiliation. This has been Prevailing for Years Now; Untreated and Unresolved.
False faces, Manipulative Brains, Uncompassionate Hearts and Programmed Words ; A Cosmetic Reality!
OBSERVE – How they Talk About You Behind YOU!!
Our Souls are been fed with mistrustful Relationships. The emotional quotient has started to loose its worth and value. No opportunities are Unturned to prove Our Righteousness on basis of Lies/ Denials / EGO / Humiliation..
Face Values cannot be relied on.
The competition to rise above another and, then expectations for everyone else to behave like One.
Human jealousies have been existing since centuries. This is OK to accept because the equation between what I want and What I have will never be proportionate. We have to accept this fact and improvise and compete with ourselves to progress better. We have abilities to be Mindful , Consciously aware – This is the beauty of being a Human and We should relish being One!
Each One is Different and Unique 👐
Every Individual has his Own Desires, Aspirations, Goals; We have to work only on our own targets and aim to be better every time than before. Learning from each mistake , getting up stronger each time we fail. Our focus should be concentrated on resolutions that we make for ourselves and NOT on the other person is growing better/ seeming happier. That person’s happiness quotient will be different than yours, why waste our energy in analysing him/her being successful instead of praising our achievements and retrospecting failures.
AND WE ARE FAILING TO DO SO, HENCE THE RAGE AND DESIRE TO DOWNGRADE SOMEONE AND RISE THE BAD WAY! We are Humans not bricks to build walls.
I see a Perfect Analogy of this behaviour with that of a Casino. We are treating each other as games, just playing around & enjoying the loudness of chaos, Dance floor of crushed dreams we keep stepping, and Uncounted number of turns that it takes to WIN.
WIN – The Prestige of being better than other
We are the most Intellectual species on Earth. And shamelessly are creating a mockery of this Intellect by only only Faking the Truth, Faking Relationships, Faking Lifestyles.
The Assertiveness required is being cut by the thought of I am Superior,
The Self Sufficiency is being overpowered by Faking Misery.
Why cannot we all be what WE ARE, find our own Happy Spaces, Find Peace in Humbleness, Be Sympathetic, Be Assertive.
The Spirit of ‘Snatch away the Target’ before its stolen has to subside.
Learn to Dance on Own Music. Let other’s enjoy their share of Sunshine. Grass is never greener on other side, it is a natural camouflage, Grow your garden rather.
Comparisons will always lead to jealousy and unfortunately we are failing over and over again to overcome it. We should take learnings from the Knowledgeable, share our experiences with a naive, lend a helping hand and NOT Humility, grab support with Gratitude and most of all “VALUE HUMAN BEINGS! “
EGO, Superiority Complex, Jealousy are the worst Enemies for Brain. They are our own thoughtfully created Viruses. Defeat the negativity and Rise above their Aura.
We need to Synergize our capabilities to disown them. Be Real, Be Truthful. Hell or heaven aren’t mapped on GPS they lie within us, we are answerable to Us. For peaceful night live a Splendid Day.. Have a GOOD LIFE !!!
Author-
Deepti Khosla
Disclaimer: The Opinions Expressed in Blog are Solely of The Author. They do not Intend to Hurt or Negate Anyone Else’s.
Hope – Today & Ever!
When there’s a Hope
There’s Brighter Sunshine..
Hope is Motivating & Captivating
The Path for Us to move towards Goals!
Hope that I will see through The Best,
Cultivate Positivity for Better Tomorrows!
Hope that I will feel the Love Again,
Patches the Bridges of Broken Hearts!
Hope that I will Let It Go
& Move Ahead,
Aid in Forgetting Regrets!
Hope that I will find Light Outside the Darkness,
Illuminates Mind with Positivity!
Hope that I will find Happiness-
in Little Joys,
Makes Life All the more Beautiful!
Hope that I will Accomplish Dreams to Reality,
Fill Eyes with Rainbows and Castles Of Vision!!
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