In an era dominated by digital devices and instant connectivity, there exists a relic from the past that holds a unique sentimental value – the classic address book. For those who experienced this age, these humble books were more than just a collection of names and numbers; they were a repository of connections, memories, and personal touch.
Address books were collections of relations big or small, it was a storehouse of contacts that we used in everyday life. There was always significant effort put to connect with someone; Whether to know well being, or invite someone home or even with people who supported us in everyday life.
Flipping through the pages of an address book was walk through memory lane. Each name connected through a moment; Addresses were penned down personally – of relatives, neighbours, friends, acquaintances. And even of support help like plumber or gas cylinder delivery boy.. 🙂
There was a dedicated effort made to write each contact detail and the process of acquiring details also involved great effort. I remember being a kid many a times we used to check the correctness or latest information through the details mentioned on wedding cards received from relatives or neighbours or even exchanged details through a common acquaintance.
This fostered different camaraderie, because of the genuine willingness that people showed to stay in touch.
I vividly recall the joy of finding a phone number, always leading to discovering a few more names to reconnect with.
Those days call rates were also pretty steep, every minute of the phone was utilised, conversations had essence and genuineness was all that was been spoken.
People who didn’t had luxury of having phone connections at home had to go to phone booths to make calls, they carried small pocket diaries along.
Phone booths had limited time allowed to customers : Privacy in conversations was missing unlike today but guess people had respect for other’s privacy.
Loosing a contact had meagre possibility because of physical record been maintained.
Every call had a clean intent in conversation, and every phone call was valued enough.
In contrast to those times, we have smart phones or digital gadgets today to save contacts. While it simplifies the way we access details or connect with each other, it also carries downside to it.
We take each other a little less important, loss of a contact is inconsequential. An attempt for a phone call has diminished and is loosing its charm.
Today People are easily connected but are more busier and even lesser closer.
We are missing on the charm of looking up in the address book, reminiscing the moments of capturing details; Finding a long lost contact between pages and the happiness around it, prized conversations and urge for a conversation.
Today, it is easy to find a number on phone but difficult to even stay in contact. We can block or erase people’s details in jiffy, a far cry from the past where connections, though fewer, held depth and meaning.
Author-
Deepti Khosla
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