Acceptance of Diversity Of Life

Sipping a cup of tea, I had this thought…

When we are young and studying in school or college, we are so connected with our friends. We meet them every day, hang out, and exchange messages or phone calls in the evening. We celebrate every little thing, believing that these friendships are meant to last forever.

As we move out to make careers, the connection gradually diminishes. From days to weeks, and even to months or years, everyone’s life engrosses them in numerous aspects. A reunion, be it in a year or two, or perhaps many more, may seem like a faint possibility.

Does this mean we change as individuals? Have we forgotten the good times we shared, or have we failed to maintain the respect for the relationships we nurtured?

Everyone has their boundaries, and Life’s journey presents different challenges. While we cater to the endless offerings from life, we naturally align ourselves with our current situations. This doesn’t mean we’ve changed.

What we used to do yesterday may not be suitable for today. Not because we’re neglecting our relationships, but because we’re striving to hold onto the present day.

Respecting the new day means it’s okay not to have long conversations. Even if we’re heading towards the same destination, our paths, speeds, and perspectives may differ. If the deal was to be together, it still doesn’t mean we need to match our pace. Neither should one slow down nor the other speed up.

The emotion of being around is not dependent on how much time we spend talking. It should be heartfelt, even if it is limited.

Let’s refrain from passing judgments on relationships that once blossomed. We must realize that we are all on different voyages.

It’s fine if difficulties aren’t shared; it’s fine if happiness isn’t expressed. Love for one another doesn’t depend on the number of words spoken; it’s about how deeply we can feel for each other even in profound silences.

Accepting The Diverse Nature of Life and Being In Accordance with Same will Allow us to Stay Strong and Still Connected for The Sake of Love irrespective of Distances !

Author-

Deepti Khosla

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